Thursday, November 07, 2024

Things To Do In San Diego: Thursday, November 7- Wednesday, November 13, 2024: Deaf Club | Modest Mouse| BEAT| Stop Light Observations | John Hiatt| Crowbar|


There's no way to pretend that the outcome of the presidential election isn't completely devastating, but if my kid can wake up on Wednesday morning and get himself to school (where his friends wondered at lunch if they or there parents will be deported), then certainly I can suck it up and move forward. If you need live music or to get fucked up at any of the many dance nights, or just need to belly up to a bar and watch karaoke, you have community here. On the opposite scope of things, I'm grateful I didn't drink on election night because it would've made the whole thing and next day way, way worse. Carry on, my beautiful San Diego. At least this is the place we get to call home. (and super shout out to Isaac, who generously donated to this site!)

Stay safe out there. 

Thursday, October 31, 2024

Things To Do In San Diego: Thursday, October 31- Wednesday, November 6, 2024: SD Halloween Freakout | Creepy Creeps | Southern Culture on the Skids | King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard | La Santa Cecilia | Men At Work | ELECTION DAY!!

Art by Shepard Fairey. Reference photo by Lawrence Jackson

Great shows this week, but let's be honest. Only one thing matters: election day. 
Please vote. 
Stay safe out there. 

Thursday, October 31, 2024:
  • San Diego Freak Out Halloween with Wild Wild Wets, Gary Wilson, Spacehall Sound Machine, DJ Andrew McGranahan, San Diego Liquid Light Society @ Casbah
  • Disclosure vs. Fred Again.. Tribute Dance Party@ Soda Bar
  • Tornillo "Estilo Fino Tour", Razz @ The Observatory
  • Halloween Heat featuring 80's Heat, Bella Lux @ Belly Up
  • Breakbot, Irfane, Adam Salter @ Music Box
  • Fresh Veggies Micro Brass @ Lou Lou's Jungle Room, Lafayette Hotel (Complimentary Entry | 21+ | No Reservation Required | 7pm | 9pm)
  • Blackberry Smoke: Be Right Here Tour 2024, Kelsey Waldon @ Humphrey's Concerts By The Bay
  • A Halloween Extravaganza! Spar Customs presents The Sleepwalkers, Crown City Bombers, Ugly Thingz @ Pour House 
  • Bachata Surf with Los Paisanos @ Pour House
  • Landon Conrath, Andrew Garden @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • SAD Paramore tribute ; Savage Touch (80s tribute) @ The Holding Company
  • Emilie-Claire Barlow @ The Jazz Lounge (6:15 SOLD OUT| 9pm)
  • Halloween Night with Djs Kasama & Minister M, Jinxx Mirage @ EQ 
  • Halloween Party with DJ Williams Band With June Bug @ Winston's 
  • Farm Truck @ Humphrey's Backstage Live
  • Thunder Thursday presents Kisstroyer with DJs Papi Yani, Art Weasel and Steph Raff @ Tower Bar
  • The Rocky Horror Show @ Cygnet Theatre
  • The Thanksgiving Play @ New Village Arts 
  • Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors @ The Old Globe 
  • Incident at Our Lady of Perpetual Help @ North Coast Rep Theatre 
  • Taking Liberties! w/ This Unrest (Siouxsie & the Banshees), DJs Heather Hardcore & GothCheez @ Til-Two Club
  • Drivin The Bus (6-9pm), Water Spots (3-6pm) | Halloween Costume Contest @ Aquarius Bar & Grille 
  • Gypsy Sally @ Seven Grand
  • Tube Amp'd @ Mr. Peabody's
  • Acoustic Sunsets @ Cannonball, Belmont Park
  • Halloween with DJ Kiki @ Moonshine Beach 
  • Puro Feeling @ Bull & Bourbon, Sycuan Casino
  • We Call It Ballet @ Joan B. Kroc Theatre
  • CLOWNHAUSE - Halloween Party! @ Park & Rec
  • Victoria Robertson @ Le Fontainebleau Room, Westgate Hotel
  • Aztec Halloween Open Mic @ Aztec Brewing Company, Vista
  • Open Jam with Jeff Ousley @ Navajo Live
  • Karaoke @ Luau Bar
  • Karaoke/Halloween Costume Contest @ 710 Beach Club
  • Imaginarium “Where Light Meets Magic” @ Las Americas Premium Outlets 
Friday, November 1, 2024:
  • Dia de Los Muertos with The Creepy Creeps, Scary Pierre, Low Volts, Pavlov's Dogs @ Casbah (SOLD OUT)
  • Bikini Trill, Wavy Trees @ Soda Bar
  • Ripe, Hembree @ Belly Up
  • Las Cafeteras @ UCSD Epstein Family Amphitheatre
  • Kimmi Bitter & The Westside Twang @ Lou Lou's Jungle Room, Lafayette Hotel (Complimentary Entry | 21+ | No Reservation Required | 8pm | 10pm)
  • Mago De Oz: Feliz No Cumpleaños Tour @ The Observatory
  • Tinzo + Jojo @ Music Box
  • The Artist Collective @ Dizzy's
  • ZZ Top: The Elevation Tour, Mike "The Drifter" Flanigin @ Humphrey's Concerts By The Bay
  • Dia De Los Muertos/Halloween Party with Ruling Party, Whatevr, Follow Coffins, Better Before @ Ken Club
  • Good Gravy, Austin Stambaugh @ Black Cat Bar
  • April and The Funk Junkies @ Belly Up (Happy Hour, 5-8pm)
  • Dr. Gabba, DJ Burrito Boy, Heelbite316 @ Brick By Brick
  • Gore Fest Presented by Icepick Records@ Che Cafe
  • The Dave Gleason Trio @ Grand Ole BBQ, Flinn Springs
  • Graham Nancarrow @ Moonshine Flats 
  • bodie and gio.: The Happy To Be Here With Nobody Else Tour @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • Falcon Punch @ Aztec Brewing Company, Vista
  • Next of Kin @ Mr. Peabody's 
  • The B-Sections @ Seven Grand
  • Liquor N' The Biscuits @ The Rabbit Hole (6-9pm)
  • Live Band Karaoke @ The Rabbit Hole (9pm-1am)
  • Strange Legends @ Bancroft Bar
  • Lyfe Jennings 20th Anniversary Tour @ House of Blues
  • Metalachi @ The Holding Company
  • San Diego Opera Presents La Bohème @ Civic Theatre 
  • Dia de los Muertos Celebration @ Sea World
  • Art San Diego @ San Diego Convention Center
  • The Importance of Being Earnest @ Lambs Players at Coronado Resident Theatre
  • The Rocky Horror Show @ Cygnet Theatre
  • The Thanksgiving Play @ New Village Arts 
  • The Addams Family @ San Diego Junior Theatre
  • Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors @ The Old Globe 
  • Incident at Our Lady of Perpetual Help @ North Coast Rep Theatre 
  • 29th Annual Museum Día de los Muertos Festival @ California Center for the Arts, Escondido (4-9pm)
  • The Happys, Strawflower @ Winston's 
  • FNGRS CRSSD x KnownUnknown present Mark Broom, Ciara B, Nathan Gorey @ EQ 
  • Karaoke @ 710 Beach Club
  • The Crotches, Hawk Auburn, Axxident, Dj Wenzo @ Til-Two Club
  • Ass Pocket Whiskey Fellas @ Fast Times 
  • 3 Car Garage @ Tio Leo's
  • Ristband @ Humphrey's Backstage Live (8pm)
  • Fleetwood Max @ Navajo Live 
  • Amanda Portela @ Riviera Supper Club
  • The Hips (6-9pm),  Jazz Jam on The Jetty with AWP (3:30-6pm) @ Aquarius Bar & Grille 
  • The Music of Sesame Street, Joe Raposo & Friends, Special Guest Aimee Nolte @ The Jazz Lounge
  • Wind Up Dj Sets @ Park & Rec
  • Doc Hammer, Lord Howler, -(16)- @ Tower Bar 
  • Branded @ Renegade Country
  • Rock en Español: Aress @ Border X Brewing
  • B!ngo @ Quartyard
  • Silver Panda @ SPIN
  • Flashback Fridays with Junior theDISCOpunk @ Mo's
  • Dj Hevrock @ The Blind Spot (Behind Seven Grand)
  • Dj Real Hypha & Dj Kiki @ Moonshine Beach 
  • Karaoke @ Luau Bar
  • Live Music @ Le Fontainebleau Room, Westgate Hotel 
  • Imaginarium “Where Light Meets Magic” @ Las Americas Premium Outlets 
Saturday, November 2, 2024 (San Diego Beer Week):
  • Southern Culture on the Skids, Alvino and the Dwells @ Casbah (SOLD OUT| 7pm)
  • Día de los Deftones 2024: Idles, Sunny Day Real Estate (performing “Diary”), HEALTH, Paris Texas, Duster, GEL, Qendresa @ Gallagher Square, Petco Park 
  • La Santa Cecilia, Carlos y Charlos, Vivir Quintana @ Music Box
  • King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard, King Stingray, DJ Crenshaw @ The Shell (SOLD OUT)
  • King Gizzard Pre-Show Meetup with Hocus Bogus, Amerikan Bear, Echo Chamber, Illuminati Telethon @ Casbah (12pm)
  • CANCELED: Bodega, Blair Gun, Honeymoon @ Soda Bar
  • Benjamin Tod & Lost Dog Street Band, Nolan Taylor @ Belly Up (SOLD OUT)
  • The Music of Daniel Jackson with The Joshua White Trio @ Dizzy's
  • Freestyle Explosion with Stevie B, Lisa Lisa, Exposé, SHANNON, Connie, Lime, Will to Power, Pretty Poison, Nocera @ Frontwave Arena
  • Day of the Dead Concert: Lady Dottie & The Diamonds, Rey Wolf @ Quartyard
  • Ryan Castro & Blessd @ Cal Coast Credit Union Open Air Theatre, SDSU
  • Laura Cantrell @ Museum of Making Music 
  • 524 Brass Band @ Seven Grand
  • An evening with Demola the violinist @ Ramona Mainstage
  • 11th Anniversary @ Border X Brewing 
  • Hockey: San Diego Gulls vs. Abbotsford Canucks @ Pechanga Arena
  • Frankie Avalon @ Poway Onstage
  • Grupo Duelo: Evitame La Pena Tour @ Balboa Theatre
  • Because: A Symphony of Serendipity @ Jacobs Music Center/Symphony Hall 
  • Just Let Me Go, Sherblato, Rank Ocean @ Che Cafe 
  • Yspitucky, The Lonesome Lowdowns| SDBW with Fall Brewing Co @ Panama 66
  • Ana Barbara "La Reina Grupera Tour" @ The Magnolia
  • Old Blood: Climax Over America Tour Part 1, Billy King & The Bad Bad Bad, Val Chillmore @ Pour House
  • Javier Escovedo, Austin Stambaugh @ Black Cat Bar
  • Mas Cafe @ Aztec Brewing Company, Vista
  • The Johnny Deadly Trio @ Grand Ole BBQ, Flinn Springs
  • Cimafunk, Karina Daza @ House of Blues
  • Broadside & Bearings, Stateside, Unwell @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • The Music of Sesame Street, Joe Raposo & Friends, Aimee Nolte @ The Jazz Lounge
  • Sprung Monkey @ The Holding Company
  • Punk Rock Chili Dog Social - Mr Firley, The Mormons, Crap, Strychnine 99, Halloween Jax @ Tower Bar
  • Brighton Street Bullies, Deadly Dispute, Heartbreak Hustlers, The Calvins @ Bancroft Bar
  • Buzz And The Broncos @ The Rabbit Hole 
  • Pinnacle, Cruze Roots, Ocean Natives @ 710 Beach Club
  • Graham Nancarrow @ Moonshine Flats 
  • City Soul Collective presents Head Hi, Elegant Tern, soul collective DJs@ Til-Two Club
  • Call of Tomorrow @ Mr. Peabody's
  • Felix Martin, Ando San, Stereosity @ Brick By Brick
  • J Boog, Arise Roots @ SOMA 
  • San Diego Opera Presents La Bohème @ Civic Theatre 
  • Dia de los Muertos Celebration @ Sea World
  • Art San Diego @ San Diego Convention Center
  • The Importance of Being Earnest @ Lambs Players at Coronado Resident Theatre (2pm| 7pm)
  • The Rocky Horror Show @ Cygnet Theatre (2pm | 7pm)
  • The Thanksgiving Play @ New Village Arts (2pm| 7:30pm)
  • Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors @ The Old Globe (2pm| 8pm)
  • The Addams Family @ San Diego Junior Theatre
  • Incident at Our Lady of Perpetual Help @ North Coast Rep Theatre (2pm | 8pm)
  • Sammy Miller & The Congregation @ The JAI, The Conrad Prebys Performing Arts Center (6pm & 8:30pm)
  • De Colores Youth Dance Production @ California Center for the Arts, Escondido
  • Bear Night with DJ Jon Williams @ EQ 
  • Jah Ollin @ Winston's (9pm)
  • A tribute to Blink -182 with Buddha Ranch, Misery Loves Company @ Winston's 
  • Full Strength Funk Band @ Tio Leo's
  • The Weener Pigs @ Humphrey's Backstage Live (5pm)
  • Next Level @ Humphrey's Backstage Live (8pm)
  • Santana Soul (6-9pm), Honeytones (3-6pm), Chicken Wire (12-3pm) @ Aquarius Bar & Grille 
  • Headmaster, Oasiz @ Navajo Live 
  • The Remnants @ Fast Times 
  • Big City Hillbillies @ Renegade Country
  • Stellita's Groove @ Lobby Bar, Viejas Casino 
  • Ryan Tafolla @ Riviera Supper Club
  • Over Easy DJ Set @ Park & Rec
  • LED presents Angrybaby @ SPIN
  • FNGRS CRSSD presents Anjunadeep Open Air San Diego @ Beach House 
  • Dunekat @ The Blind Spot (Behind Seven Grand)
  • Live DJ @ 710 Beach Club (4-7pm)
  • Nerd Comedy @ New Village Arts (8pm)
  • Dj Real Hypha & Dj Kiki @ Moonshine Beach 
  • Karaoke @ Luau Bar
  • Live Music @ Le Fontainebleau Room, Westgate Hotel  
  • Imaginarium “Where Light Meets Magic” @ Las Americas Premium Outlets 
Sunday, November 3, 2024 (San Diego Beer Week):
  • Steel Pole Bath Tub, Owl Be Damned, Wife @ Casbah
  • The Band Feel, Saguaro @ Soda Bar
  • Men At Work/Colin Hay, Lazlo Bane @ The Sound
  • The Fabulous Thunderbirds, Chickenbone Slim and the Biscuits @ Belly Up 
  • La Santa Cecilia, Carlos y Charlos, Vivir Quintana @ Music Box 
  • Morris Day & The Time and Sheila E @ Heritage Events Center, Sycuan Casino 
  • LED presents The Bread Tour with Sofi Tukker, Shermanology, Carola @ Gallagher Square, Petco Park 
  • Jaguar Sunshine Tour: JW Francis, Jaguar Sun @ The Loft, UCSD
  • Origami Angel, Arms Length, Macseal, Forests @ SOMA 
  • Electriclouieland Presents: Sunday Sermon feat Brian Levy @ Lou Lou's Jungle Room, Lafayette Hotel (Complimentary Entry | 21+ | No Reservation Required | 8pm | 10pm)
  • Candlelight Aerial: The Best of Hans Zimmer @ Joan B. Kroc Theatre
  • Robin Henkel with Horns @ Panama 66
  • Voices of our City Community Concert @ Quartyard
  • Hockey: San Diego Gulls vs. Abbotsford Canucks @ Pechanga Arena
  • Vaultboy, Jordan Suaste @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • Culture Clash's 40th Anniversary Desmadre @ Balboa Theatre
  • Pants Karaoke!! @ Ken Club
  • Sunday Punkday @ Winston's (3pm)
  • San Diego Opera Presents La Bohème @ Civic Theatre 
  • Art San Diego @ San Diego Convention Center
  • Dia de los Muertos Celebration @ Sea World
  • The Importance of Being Earnest @ Lambs Players at Coronado Resident Theatre (2pm)
  • The Thanksgiving Play @ New Village Arts (2pm | 7pm)
  • Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors @ The Old Globe (2pm| 7pm)
  • The Addams Family @ San Diego Junior Theatre
  • Incident at Our Lady of Perpetual Help @ North Coast Rep Theatre 
  • Soccer: San Diego Wave FC vs Racing Louisville FC @ Snapdragon Stadium (2:30pm)
  • Mad Caddies, Authority Zero, Belvedere @ The Holding Company
  • Brawley @ Grand Ole BBQ, Flinn Springs
  • Terror in San Diego, CA with Negative Approach, Haywire, Major Pain @ Brick By Brick
  • Concert in the Park Opera 4Kid: Message in a Bottle, with Victoria Robertson & Bernardo Bermúdez@ Spreckels Organ Pavilion (2pm, Free)
  • Jazz Jam with Dylan Soto @ Aztec Brewing Company, Vista
  • Sunday Night Jazz with Cannonball-Coltrane Quintet @ Tio Leo's
  • Sunday Night Jazz @ Mr. Peabody's (6pm)
  • Jazz Brunch Series @ Q&A Restaurant and Oyster Bar, Oceanside (12-3pm)
  • High Noon Grateful Dead Party (12-Sunset) @ Aquarius Bar & Grille
  • Sqwerv, Starsign @ Navajo Live 
  • Burt Brion @ Humphrey's Backstage Live (6pm)
  • O.B.-o-ke @ Winston's (8pm)
  • Live Music @ Sycamore Den (6-8pm)
  • Karaoke @ 710 Beach Club
  • Imaginarium “Where Light Meets Magic” @ Las Americas Premium Outlets 
Monday, November 4, 2024 (San Diego Beer Week):
  • I Am, Life Cycles, Maul, Serve the Blade @ Soda Bar
  • Billy Bob Thornton & The Boxmasters, Fran Moran and The Nervous Wrecks @ Belly Up
  • Inhaler, Benches @ SOMA  
  • Electric Waste Band @ Winston's 
  • Willow Avalon, Noah Rinker @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • Final Gasp & Upon Stone, Doomslayer, Sangre @ Brick by Brick
  • The Jukes @ Humphrey's Backstage Live
  • Sqwerv @ Navajo Live 
  • Boris Allakhverdyan, clarinet & Alin Melik-Adamyan, piano with guest Alex Greenbaum, cello @ La Jolla Athenaeum Music & Arts Library (7:30pm)
  • Trio Arpavioluta @ La Jolla Athenaeum Music & Arts Library (12pm | Free Mini-Concert)
  • The Voyagers (5-8pm) @ Aquarius Bar & Grille 
  • Words of Welcome: A Conversation with Roxane Gay @ UCSD Epstein Family Amphitheatre
  • Blue Monday with DJ Camilla Robina, DJ Heather Hardcore @ EQ 
  • Open Mic with Jay Cain @ Mr. Peabody's
  • Monday Blues & Rock Jam @ Aztec Brewery, Vista
  • Open Mic @ 710 Beach Club
  • Karaoke @ The Holding Company
  • Industry Bags Night @ 710 Beach Club
  • Karaoke (8-11pm) @ Pour House 
  • Trivia Night w/Kyle @ Pour House 
Tuesday, November 5, 2024 (ELECTION DAY!):
  • Sue Palmer & Her Motel Swing Orchestra @ Tio Leo's
  • nobigdyl.:"the people we became" Tour, Jon Keith, Aklesso @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • Real Friends,  Can't Swim, Carly Cosgrove, Slow Joy @ House of Blues
  • Joe Bonamassa @ Civic Theatre
  • Glen Fisher Jazz Jam @ Humphrey's Backstage Live
  • Caballero Homey Jazz Jam @ Bread & Salt (Free, 7-10pm)
  • Mark Fisher (5-8pm) @ Aquarius Bar & Grille 
  • Acoustic Sunsets @ Cannonball, Belmont Park
  • Twilight Movie Night: Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind @ UCSD Epstein Family Amphitheatre
  • Laura Jane's Musical Trivia & Bingo @ Pour House (6-8pm)
  • Familia Loteria @ Border X Brewing 
  • Swing Dance Tuesdays @ Queen Bee's 
  • Trivia @ Fall Brewing (All Locations | 6pm)
  • Karaoke @ Bancroft Bar
  • Karaoke @ EQ (formerly The Merrow)
  • Karaoke @ Aztec Brewing Company, Vista
  • Karaoke @ Pour House 
  • Karaoke @ Mr. Peabody's
  • Trivia Night @ Park & Rec
  • Trivia Night/Retro Night @ 710 Beach Club
  • Karaoke with Christine @ Navajo Live 
  • Imaginarium “Where Light Meets Magic” @ Las Americas Premium Outlets 
Wednesday, November 6, 2024 (San Diego Beer Week):
  • Fat Evil Children, Eric Schroeder, JERM @ Casbah
  • Meatbodies, Keepers, Chorduroy @ Soda Bar
  • The Record Company, Nat Myers @ Belly Up (SOLD OUT)
  • Wild Child, Susto, Motenko @ Music BoxNduduzo Makhathini @ The Loft
  • Gilbert Castellanos Young Lions Series & Jazz Jam @ Copley Auditorium, Panama 66
  • Hanson: Underneath Experience Tour (Acoustic Show), Opener TBD @ House of Blues
  • Kaitlin Butts - Roadrunner! Tour, Fancy Hagood @ Voodoo Room, House of Blues
  • Hanson - Underneath Experience Tour - DJ Afterparty @ House of Blues
  • Slawdog Showcase: Young Fla$h bday and album release party @ The Holding Company
  • Rendez-Vous. Velvet Wounds, Dj Fn1 @ Brick by Brick
  • Jason Hanna and the Swingin' Bananas @ Riviera Supper Club
  • Bonneville Seven, Rip Carson @ Tio Leo's
  • Robin Adler & Mutts of the Planet: A Birthday Tribute to Joni Mitchell @ The Jazz Lounge
  • Club Culture: High & Mighty, DJ Unite, Non-Profit @ Winston's 
  • The Cedar Shakers @ Winston's (5:30pm)
  • The Importance of Being Earnest @ Lambs Players at Coronado Resident Theatre (2pm | 7pm)
  • Incident at Our Lady of Perpetual Help @ North Coast Rep Theatre 
  • Not All Dead (5-8pm) @ Aquarius Bar & Grille 
  • The Locals @ Humphrey's Backstage Live
  • Dark Wave Garden @ Navajo Live
  • Drag Bingo Wednesdays @ American Junkie
  • Trivia @ The Holding Company
  • Trivia Wednesdays @ Quartyard
  • Open Mic with Whit @ Pour House
  • Karaoke @ Bancroft Bar
  • Open Mic @ 710 Beach Club
  • Improv with Patrick McInnis @ New Village Arts 
  • Imaginarium “Where Light Meets Magic” @ Las Americas Premium Outlets 


Wednesday, October 30, 2024

Some Thoughts On The Election: Stop Targeting Trans People



While TVs everywhere are tuned into the final innings of tonight's World Series Game, I'm sitting here giving trigger warnings to our kid who is trying to sit in the room while we are force-fed the bigoted, fear-mongering ads that are absolutely full of lies from TFG. 

So let me tell you just a little bit of what being the parent of a trans teen has been like for the past year and a half that our kid had the COURAGE to come out to us. For the greater part of two years, Toby has had a weekly therapy session with a LICENSED THERAPIST (not some fake "church counselor" or "advisor"). Toby has had to see his primary care doctor and his gender counselor and his gender-affirming doctor too many times to count ---just to see if this is real, true, connecting all the gender-dysphoria and depression together. Toby has also had to go through extensive legal legwork, to figure out how to legally change his name, get a proper ID and passport, all while trying to assure his uber-Christian biomom is on board and going to support all steps of this process without backing out at any moment.  He also goes nearly daily to youth centers and peer groups to find support and to just be a kid instead of wearing his gender-identity on his forehead. They do group activities, have a band that marched in Pride, and offer full support services. 

I could literally go on an on about how many clinics, blood draws, psychiatrists, testing centers, etc this kid has had to endure.. We WISH we knew sooner and could've gotten on board with puberty blockers. We wish we knew so he could've been in counseling before things got dark and he was silently suffering alone, trying to find any reason to stay alive one more day.

We are finally at the stage where Toby can actually start hormone therapy, and even that has been a hassle; we have the script but have to have the prescribing doctor administer the first dose, with weeks to wait for that appointment. 

I have shared all of this with his permission, because this election is personal. We are overjoyed every day that Toby is finding joy in his life, has hope in his life, and is actually thinking about a future, Seeing these insane ads from a misogynistic bigoted CONVICTED FELON who nearly killed us all the first time around compelled me to write during the final two innings of this game. Your life may not depend on this election, but the life of MY FAMILY certainly does.

There is no choice except Harris-Walz this election. None. 

Monday, October 28, 2024

Rosey's Diary & Newsy Things: Hippo Lupe Makes A Splash| Voting Centers Open| Las Cuatro Milpas Chisme| County FINALLY Audits Shady Flood Response and more...

I think Lupe believes if she opens her mouth for the people, she might get treats.
(Taken 10.28.25)


I know I skipped a couple weeks of diary/newsy posts, but I have been working a lot, had quite a few family things come up (not vague-booking, just have a senior in high school so there are a lot of extra-curriculars and whatnot), and I spent several days with an ear infection that was irritating and kinda knocked me out, in addition to getting my flu and COVID booster on the same day as my Urgent Care. When I wasn't working, I was trying to enjoy as much time as I could at the zoo for HalGLOWeen, particularly spending hours with my (human) friends as we have been obsessed with Lupe, the new hippo, and enjoying watching the sometimes tenuous but mostly fascinating introduction period as she gets to know Funani and Amahle. Sunday was the last day of extended hours, so that means that zoo hours are back to 6pm close for the rest of the month, and then Friday, November 1st, the zoo starts closing at 5pm!! Ugh. Maybe I'll break in my hiking shoes or perhaps take advantage of later hours on certain nights at Sea World. Cozy nights at home won't be bad, either. Nonetheless, things are good, for now, though I'm not gonna lie, the election is definitely giving me hope and dread simultaneously. The ads are bonkers, the news DOES NOT need to show snippets of rallies, and I seriously am sick of the email and polls, and I'm tired of the trauma dreams. If it isn't clear, we are a Harris-Walz household. I've got a couple merch nights lined up this week, but I also plan on sitting with my ballot and the many voter guides I generally consult so I can go into my in-person voting on election day; I just prefer it. I hope you do the same.
Stay safe out there. 

Thursday, October 24, 2024

Things To Do In San Diego: Thursday, October 24-Wednesday, October 30, 2024: Michigander | Clem Snide | Dream Baby Dream| Orville Peck| RFTC| FIDLAR| THICK| Black Heart Procession| Aimee Mann | Y La Bamba & Kiltro


I am really really trying to get up early on Thursday, so I don't have a whole lot to say this week. Halloween is in a week, but that makes this weekend the big party weekend so on top of a lot of really huge shows, there are also quite a few "Halloween Bash"-type events. Being that it is the last weekend of late hours at the Zoo, that's probably where I'll be, but I've got my eye on a couple other fun things, too. I'll be working tonight at Quartyard for Michigander and on Sunday our kid is performing at the Organ Pavilion with San Diego Youth Symphony. The North Park Book Fair also seems pretty fun, though the last thing I need is more books. If you're looking for a really good show, may I recommend the Y La Bamba and Kiltro show at Belly Up. Both bands kill it at the Casbah, so playing together up there will be a pretty rad show if you can make it. 

Stay safe out there. 

Thursday, October 17, 2024

Things To Do In San Diego: Thursday, October 17-Wednesday, October 23, 2024: Boogarins| Hiss Golden Messenger| Gin Blossoms| Charli XCX| Cole Chaney| Babe Rainbow| Moon Hooch| Nada Surf| Chaos Chaos|

Matthew Caws of Nada Surf (1.18.2020)

Keeping it short this week. I've got an ear infection so I want nothing more than to crawl back into bed. Lots of good shows this week, but right now the only one on my radar is Nada Surf at the Belly Up on Monday. I figure my infection will be cleared up by then. The following night, Chaos Chaos plays at the Casbah and I might have to make that one. Back in 2007, Smoosh played at the Casbah when the youngest sister was just 10 years old, which I believe means they still hold the record for youngest band ever to play the Casbah. It's crazy to think they're adults now and it might be cool to check them out. 

I think I'm also working for Babe Rainbow but we haven't confirmed. In all honesty, I wish I was going out to the desert on Thursday or Friday before we get another heat wave, but it looks like that might have to wait. Anyway, good stuff this week, but judging by the line at urgent care, everyone is sick right now, so stay safe out there. 

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Things To Do In San Diego: Thursday, October 10-Wednesday, October 16, 2024: Etr| Foxing| Mumiy Troll| Unwound| Touché Amoré| Pinback| Mo Lowda| Hinds| Cancerslug| Psymon Spine| Melissa Etheridge| Kiesza|


As I've been saying, October shows are bonkers. There are so many rad shows coming up that it's easy to feel a little overwhelmed. The bad news for venues, though perhaps it's good news for you, is that people are spread a little thin right now. Of course there are some sold out shows, and for those you're outta luck, but there are plenty of shows that should be sold out that aren't, which give you the freedom to get a wild hair and check out a lot of these shows on a whim, with chances pretty high that you can grab a ticket at the door. And you should. Because there's a lot of good stuff. As I mentioned in my last post, I'll be working at the Quartyard on Friday and Saturday and it's been a little mind-blowing how many tickets for those shows have sold this week, when typically those shows would be sold out well in advance. Same goes for the incredible Etran de L'Aïr, playing tonight at the Casbah. But then you look at the competing shows on the same night, and maybe it's not so hard to believe people aren't making up their minds until the last minute. So, be kind to yourself, you can't do it all, but you should definitely take a chance on some great live music. Unlike sportsball, at the end of a show, half the crowd won't leave heartbroken. (Ideally nobody does, but there is the occasional crying girl in the bathroom.)
Go to a show. Participate in one of the free community events. The heat wave that was promised never really hit, so we're in a really perfect time in San Diego at the moment. Take it all in. 
Stay safe out there. 

Tuesday, October 08, 2024

Rosey's Diary & Newsy Things: SD Greenest City in US| Tacky Mission Valley Property For Sale| LaJolla Seawall Gets Rehab| Ballots Are On Their Way| Newsom Signs Slate of New Laws|

Mandazzi Dreaming About His New Family (Taken 10.1.24)

I guess last week's diary post got away from me, so I decided to make sure it gets posted before I dive into this week's listings. Things have been pretty good, I had a birthday but had to work, so we kinda sprinkled in some fun over the past couple weeks to compensate. My brother came to town, so we had a big family dinner at Miguel's Cocina, I worked at the Clairo show and Darren and Toby were able to use the tickets that Jeff bought for me, and my family went to the El Cajon Oktoberfest on Sunday. I'm trying to do as much nighttime zoo as possible, but it's only on weekends, so I have to fit it in where I can. I'm bummed I didn't make it to Damien Jurado on Monday, but I got caught up making a big dinner and by the time that was all done, it was too late to commit. Like a lot of people, I have been obsessed with the Menendez brothers, so over the weekend I watched Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed on Peacock, and then I watched the new Netflix documentary, The Menendez Brothers. I attempted to watch Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story, also on Netflix, but it was so bad I only got through one episode. It's interestingthat that the Los Angeles County District Attorney George Gascón had a press conference on Monday, the day the new Netflix movie dropped, to say they would 'reevaluate' the convictions. It's all fascinating to watch unfold. 
Besides all that, I'm presently working for Clikatat Ikatowi at the Casbah and it is nuts to butts in here. I'll also be working at the Unwound show on Friday, and the Mo Lowda show on Saturday, both at the Quartyard. I hope everyone has a great week. 
Stay safe out there. 

Thursday, October 03, 2024

Things To Do In San Diego: Thursday, October 3-Wednesday, October 9, 2024: Oktoberfest | Clairo | Dashboard Confessional | DVG | Nation of Language | Avett Brothers | Field Guide | Damien Jurado | Clikitat Ikatowi | Carina Round |

Damien Jurado (Taken 3.7.24)

There are a couple shows I'm working on that are really struggling to sell tickets, and now looking at this week's listings, I can see why. There is so much going on this weekend. There are a ton of amazing tours rolling into town, Oktoberfests, and now the Padres playing the Dodgers this weekend, it's gonna be pretty bananas. If your band is playing somewhere and it seems underattended, you should definitely not feel bad about it. Plus, we're rolling into another heat wave, so that isn't really gonna help the whole vibe of the weekend. Of course I'm a "Zoopie", so HalGLOWeen kicks off this weekend at San Diego Zoo with a member preview night on Friday and the Autumn Festival kicks off at Safari Park with a member preview night on Saturday. It's a lot. I've got my brother in town, I'm working for Clairo, we're going to El Cajon Oktoberfest on Sunday, and I'm working for Clikitat Ikatowi on Tuesday. I'd love to get in a few more things, like perhaps going to the Damien Jurado show at Lou Lou's on Monday, but I'll have to see how it all goes. I hope you can find your own adventures, too. It's a great week to be a San Diegan. 

Stay safe out there.